This is a suprising topic and yes it's had to be so...people hate...they are full of hate...they pretend as if they don't hate...but yes they hate...People hate things..people..themself..truth..yes that's hate...although i am suprised that even the bible is full of hate..it's never approached the subject...should i say that the bible is thus hypocritical...well i am just saying
Are you still doubting that you hate...check yourself...you say the word almost everyday...that neighbour..that irritating and disgusting thing..that arrogant guy...No..I think your doubt has just been cleared
Is hate really a bad thing...I guess it's depends on the context..e.g..I hate football...are we going to say that's bad..yes even if you hate your neighbour..it's not a bad thing..you can hate him or her..
Love is thus an exaggerated word..the love for power drove Hitler to personally supervise genocide..the love for Allah drives Islamic terrorist to kill for him...the love for the word of God drives Christians to hate gay people and lesbians...yes love is an exaggerated word...it's can thus be good and bad...just like hate...
Many people hide under the cloak of religion ideologies to pacify their hatred...But is that really a good way to manage hate....I will thus make some suggestion that is irreligious to manage hate...
*When it's seems like you hate your neighbour..especially if he is unavoidable...greet him pleasantly and offer him a smile...move on..don't linger for conversation..the more you converse..the more your hate will grow
*If you see any post that is against your religion or ideology...don't read it..if you do..be objective in your response...I wrote this because of Christians who like invoking the spirit of hell against any post that criticizes christianity
*If your friends hate someone..find out why...don't quickly jump into conclusion...your friends can make mistakes...
*Do not pretend you like someone...your pretense will bore more hate...be honest with the person and with yourself...when you are honest with yourself..you will be at peace
Now with all being said...I want to let you know that hate is also a human feeling just like love..anguish and happiness.
TAIWO IBRAHIM ADEYINKA
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